Bismillahirrahmanirrahim / بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم The wave of change just begin!!

I begin this journey by saying Bismillahirrahmanirrahim / بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم 

Taken into consideration that I will be starting my PhD journey it’s only fair that I start recording my daily activities in this blog. As a start lets look at what have I accomplished for the day and how can I improved further for a better tomorrow. Well there is an old saying that goes like this “if you want to be successful, we got to think and act successful”.

In this holly month I believe is a good start making some changes in to ensure a balance and healthier lifestyle to win in the journey of PhD. Is not going to be easy but at the same time I never say is impossible to achieve either. To ensure this mission accomplished every night before I go to bed here are some quick check and balance questions I should be asking myself:

(1) Have I fulfilled my responsibilities to my creator?

(2) Have I fulfilled my responsibilities to my parents?

(3) Have I fulfilled my responsibilities to my son?

(4) Have I fulfilled my responsibilities to my studies?

(5) Have I fulfilled my responsibilities to my own?

(5) Have I fulfilled my responsibilities to my work?

These questions might sound simple but yet it does have rather huge impact on my daily life, in the event if I felt sad or anger over an issues it should be consider solved after I captured it in the blog. The main objective is to ensure I stay focus on the important and urgent things in life.

This also means that is ok for me to say “no” or “I’m sorry I don’t think I can accommodate to your request” it doesn’t mean that I don’t care but I just need to be fair to myself and for my future. Beside the key questions I should also learn to talk less, listen and read more, this means more Zikir and devotes my life to Allah.

I need to Take time to ponder what I’ve done and does it provide any goodness and get me closer to my Creator? If the answer is yes then means I’m in the right track. Otherwise repent for the wrong doing. But most importantly  is be “truthful to myself”